"Smile more then you won't look like you killed someone .Trust me 👌"

So this was said by a friend of mine which we don't really talk that much anymore . She told me this when I posted a selfie of mine on Snapchat about my new haircut .
First of all ,I can't be as dramatic as other ppl to smile even when I'm upset . It's not that I'm immature or I can't deal with shits around me, it's just that I'm not those drama queen you want me to be .
And smiling when you're selfie-ing is not really a must tho.
I'm not you . Maybe you smile in every of your selfie /photos but I'm not . And what's your business with me whether do I smile or not ?! Can't I just be who I am .I did not stop her from faking her own nice smile , why is she stopping me from expressing myself ? Pls don't force a person to smile when they're not in the mood to.forcing them to smile won't make them any much happier . In a way you're actually pressuring them . Do what you feel .why must I fake a smile when I'm not happy ? to entertain the people around me ? If you really do care about that particular person aren't you suppose to comfort them instead of asking them to fake a smile and entertain you with their smiley Lil face when deep down they're damn hurt ? Is it wrong to express yourself ?? Plus I don't need someone to teach me how to selfie lol HAHA HAHA
Moreover I did not ask for your opinion -,- not all models smile on every photoshoot they had pls (I'm not saying I'm a model here tho) Imo it's much better for you to express your feelings than faking a smile . Smile when you really feel like doing it . That's true happiness
ahh ... After expressing everything , I felt so relieve rn, thank you :D) and I just realise how childish I am haha making a big fuss just bcs someone ask me to smile :"D or else I'll be treated as a murder :"D

 Yup it is indeed a very VERY long time I did not post anything here .I even had the thought of living it dead here (and it is pretty dead rn :"D) well , I don't know why my "blogging passion" came up again maybe bcs sad things strike recently and I just feel like writing something .
Had anyone of u ever felt that in a relationship ,you're the one that initiate most of the time ?finding topics to talk to him or her most of the time ? Do u feel tired of this "one sided relationship "? I am and am sort of frustrated one day to the extend that I just feel like not chatting with him anymore and just watch how we are going to be strangers with memories :) .from a sort of close friends to a stranger .not bcs I hate him for not initiating, it's just that I just feel how unimportant I am to him in this relationship  (although we're just friends :). But there's something in me that tells me not to just give up like that ,so I sort of confronted him (sort of) and he told me I am an important friend of his :) but all in all the feeling of security in this relationship did not last long bcs most of the times he still finds me for some specific reasons :) and today I have the feeling of giving up again .not sure should I but I'm tired to initiate ,so I'll not initiate anymore ,I'll just reply if he do text me :)

 Sometimes things aren't meant to be argued
whether is it true or not and etc Because different people have different opinions
like if you ask me if this dish was delicious or not I might say yes and you might say no
we can treat people's opinion as a guidance or a simple comment but don't ever treat it as a fact

Things are like that
you don't go ask for people's opinions and when you have different opinions you claim that they lied to you
The thing is different people have different opinions

"Only you will ever feel the things you feel or see the things you see"

 First of all sorry for not updating for quite a while

So today I'm ma gonna blog about assumption

Because it's happening between me and my friend (who loves to assume that her assumption are the truth ) sigh
telling me her false assumptions about me to me is somewhat an accusation to me
and when I get mad to her so called "truth" (which I think it's an accusation,cause it's not the truth AT ALL . Hate the fact that she always love to think that she knows everything) she'll say she'll better not say much if not I'll get mad <- another thing I hate about her like come on La you wanna say then say If you don't want just shut up don't say like I'm a person that gets mad easily when what you do is accusing me

please don't ever have a habit of assuming things and the worse is when you thought that your assumptions are the truth.
this is one of the cause why misunderstanding between relationships occurred (relationship here applies on all types of relationship; relationship between friends or couple or even family members)

Not that we shouldn't assume (yes we can but better not) but before you thought your assumptions are the truth please have some prove first If not you will go accusing someone and arguments will start

why assume when you can have better things to do with your brain?
Don't over think
it will make you and the people around you to suffer

Assumptions also stop you from doing something
for example if a person assumes something is very scary/difficult to be done a person might just give up on trying it

 I hate to talk to humans which don't pay attention to what I'm trying to say
Come on la this is like basic manners
Exp: how will you feel when you are talking to a person and he or she did not even make eye contact with you (its OK I'm quite OK with this because I understand that humans can multi task . Plus listening doesn't require our eyes) . He or she just concentrate on something else like the TV over you
and when you ask a quest he or she will ask You to repeat what you've just said
Definitely this person wasn't paying attention at all

Show some respect please

It's like idiot if you don't wanna pay attention to what I wanted to say
why not just ask me to shut up rather than ask me to repeat (double effort lo)

plus he or she always make his or her stupid poker face when he or she is answering or listening to me
if it's that case I think it would be better for me to talk to a tree (at least I don't need to repeat) urgh
he or she should really learn how to listen to human

 Hi guys! This isn't going to be another blog post about food or my journal , this post is going to be about the random thoughts I had.